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To know God is to know love, pope says

When speaking to God as a father, Christians experience a love that goes beyond human love and affection, which can be unpredictable and mired by selfishness, Pope Francis said.

While often compared to the love of parents, the love of God is greater; “there is a God in heaven who loves us like no one on this Earth has ever done and can ever do,” the pope said Feb. 20 during his weekly general audience.

“God’s love is that of the father ‘who is in heaven,’ according to the expression that Jesus invites us to use. It is the total love that we in this life can savor only in an imperfect way,” he said.

Continuing his series of talks on the Our Father, the pope reflected on the first verse of the Lord’s Prayer. Praying to God in heaven, he said, is the first step of every Christian prayer to enter the “mystery of God’s fatherhood.”

While God’s paternal love is a reminder of the love humans experience, the pope said that there can be no comparison between the two since human love is “capable of blossoming” in one moment and “withering and dying” in the next.

“This is what our love often is: a promise that is hard to keep, an attempt that soon dries up and evaporates, a bit like when the sun comes out in the morning and takes away the dew of the night,” the pope said.

While human love can be fickle, he said, “no one should doubt that” they are worthy of God’s love.

Some may think that the phrase “Our Father, who art in heaven” is meant to convey the distance between God and humankind, but Pope Francis said that it is instead meant to express “a radical diversity, another dimension” of love.

“None of us are alone,” the pope said. “If, even by misfortune, your earthly father had forgotten about you and you had resentments against him, you were not denied the fundamental experience of the Christian faith: that of knowing that you are God’s beloved child and that there is nothing in life that can extinguish His passionate love for you.”

To give thanks

I called a priest friend of mine the other day. He teaches in Catholic university and is a scholar of the biblical Greek language. I wanted to make sure that I had my “Greek” right when it came to the ancient Church’s usage of the word “eucharist.”

I knew that the word literally translates as “thanksgiving,” but I also remembered from my own studies of the ancient liturgical texts that it was used more as verb, “to give thanks,” than a noun, “thanksgiving.” My friend concurred with my memory and noted that in the ancient Church, the language of which was primarily Greek, the texts in reference to what we call the Eucharist, most often talked about the liturgy as “the giving of thanks.”

In fact, one of the oldest texts we have from the late first century to early second century, called the Didache, when it speaks of the early gathering of the community for the bread and the cup reads, “Now this is how you are to give thanks … .”

The Eucharist then was understood to be more of an action than an object or an event. Now, you may wonder why I am sharing this with you. It seems a little esoteric, a little too far removed in history. Indeed, we have for centuries referred to the Mass as the celebration of the Eucharist (an event) and the consecrated host as the Eucharist (a holy object). But we also celebrate the Eucharist as an act of thanksgiving. Certainly the words of the liturgy bear this out when we hear, “It is right to give Him thanks and praise … we do well always to give you thanks … .”

But sometimes this act of thanksgiving can be overwhelmed by so much of what is going on within it — remembrance, consecration, communion, etc. Perhaps in this week in which we celebrate our national holiday of Thanksgiving we might discover anew this joyful part of our tradition, the Eucharist as “the giving of thanks.”

Similarly, the full celebration of the Eucharist as an act of thanksgiving as well as an event and a holy food and object of devotion can inform our secular celebration of Thanksgiving. Thanksgiving Day can simply be an event, a holiday, a day when we gather with family and friends. It can also be simply the meal we sit down for on Thanksgiving. Or it could be a collective — a day, a meal and an act, “to give thanks” — to give thanks for so many things, so many people, so many blessings, so much abundance in our lives and out of gratitude and thankfulness to use the treasures and talents that we have wisely out of love for God and our neighbor.

Happy Thanksgiving.

Yours in Christ, The Most Reverend Christopher J. Coyne Bishop of Burlington

—Originally published in the Nov. 23-29, 2019, issue of The Inland See.

 

 

 

To everything there is a season

There is a story of a pastor who decided to hire a gardener for the poorly kept parish grounds. Year round the gardener worked diligently, mulching, preparing the soil, weeding, planting, pruning and nurturing the plants with great attention, until one day the pastor strolled into the flowering garden with a neighboring priest, anxious to show off the magnificent new creation.

Gesturing to the many different plants and flowers, the pastor said, “I praise God for all of His handiwork!”

With clippers in hand, the gardener stepped out from behind a bush and chastised the pastor saying, “Don’t you go giving all the credit to God. Just remember what this place looked like before I got here and God had it all to himself!”

Attention is a sacred gift. “The moment one gives close attention to anything, even a blade of grass, it becomes a mysterious, awesome, indescribably magnificent world in itself,” wrote Henry Miller.

When we give this kind of attention to others, it becomes a gift of love, one that nourishes and nurtures and helps bring a person into full bloom. When we have this kind of love, our world holds all the beauty of a tended garden. When we don’t, life can become a cold, dreary night.

There was a time when I felt like my world had become an eternal winter, and I couldn’t see beyond the moment in time when my father died unexpectedly, leaving me alone to care for my mother, who was a hospice patient.

But time goes on. Today, it doesn’t seem possible that my father has been gone almost 22 years. Still, each year, as Valentine’s Day approaches, I am reminded of the last Valentine’s Day we spent together, him unconscious in a hospital bed, me in tears hoping that he could at least sense how much I loved him. He died the next day.

When I returned home that night and curled up in my dad’s much-loved recliner, I recalled the words of Paul Gallico, the author of “The Snow Goose,” one of my favorite books as a child: “When two people loved each other, they worked together always, two against the world, a little company. Joy was shared, trouble split. You had an ally, somewhere, who was helping.”

This was my relationship with my dad. Gallico’s words spoke to me, not only of what is ours when we are loved, when there is someone in our life who gives us the sacred gift of attention but what we don’t have when that someone is gone, no matter what the reason. It is the aloneness of grief, the dark night of loss, the realization that you are now a company of one.

A year later, I lost my mom.

When we suffer losses such as these, we often look for reasons why. But, in all honesty, no reason could console us or take away the terrible hurt and emptiness we feel. We may cling to our faith in these inconsolable times, but even faith doesn’t erase the pain.

I have found that the only way through it all is to consider grief a season of life, a season of loss that ebbs and flows and forever changes who we are. We never learn about it in school, but life will teach us and Scripture can guide us:
“To everything there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven:
A time to be born, and a time to die;
A time to plant, and a time to pluck up that which is planted;
A time to kill, and a time to heal;
A time to break down, and a time to build up;
A time to weep, and a time to laugh;
A time to mourn, and a time to dance. …”

The writer of Ecclesiastes understood there is divine wisdom in all of God’s creation, and that we must embrace that wisdom in our own lives as well. The garden in winter is not dead, just dormant, having prepared for this season during the autumn. When the time and conditions are right, new life will spring forth from roots and seeds hidden from our sight.

— Mary Morrell
–This article was originally published in the Winter 2017 issue of Vermont Catholic magazine.

Titles of Mary

No saint has as many titles as Mary. That is perhaps because, unlike any other saint, she is so very many things to so very many people. Each name we know her by, whether it is related to her role in salvation history, such as Mother of God, or a place in which she has appeared, such as Our Lady of Lourdes, or a way in which she has been present to us, such as Our Lady, Refuge of Sinners, she shines like a jewel possessed of endless facets.

The Church recognizes six “formal” titles for her, which corresponds to Church teaching and dogmas concerning her: Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God, Our Lady, Queen of Heaven, Immaculate Conception and Assumption. Three of these are namesakes of parishes in the Diocese of Burlington, but there are others which celebrate a different aspect of who she is. Let’s take a look at some of them.

Our Lady of Perpetual Help, also known as Our Lady of Perpetual Succor, is based on an icon, painted on wood, that depicts the Mother of God holding the Divine Child while the Archangels Michael and Gabriel are on either side of them, presenting Jesus with the instruments of His Passion. Thought to have been painted in the 13th century, it was brought to Rome in the 15th. Eventually placed under the care of the Redemptorists in 1866, many graces and miracles are credited to devotion to Our Lady under this title. Interestingly, in this icon Mary is not gazing at Jesus, but at us, as if to offer

comfort and solace in our sufferings. The feast of Our Lady of Perpetual Help is June 27.

Our Lady of Mount Carmel is related to both a place and a religious order. Since the 12th century, hermits on Mount Carmel, located in northern Israel, have had a chapel dedicated to her, and they eventually became known as the Brothers of Our Lady of Mount Carmel. In 1726, devotion to Our Lady under this title became a celebration in the universal Church. Carmelite saints have had a special devotion to her: Saint Teresa of Avila, St. John of the Cross and St. Theresa of the Child Jesus. The scapular, still worn by many, was said to have been given to St. Simon Stock as a sign of devotion to Mary under this title and a reminder to all to persevere in both prayer and penance. This feast day is celebrated on July 16.

The Assumption of Mary, as a dogma of the Church, is relatively recent. On Nov. 1, 1950, Pope Pius XII solemnized what had been a common belief in the Catholic Church since at least the sixth century. “We pronounce, declare and define it to be a divinely revealed dogma that the immaculate Mother of God, the ever-Virgin Mary, having completed the course of her earthly life, was assumed body and soul to heavenly glory,” he said.  A holy day of obligation, the Assumption, is celebrated on Aug. 15.

The Queenship of Mary, which is celebrated on Aug. 22, also is a fairly recent commemoration on the Church calendar. Pope Pius XII established this feast in 1954, placing it on the octave day of the Assumption; we are perhaps reminded of it most often when we pray the prayer “Hail Holy Queen.”  The Coronation of Mary as Queen of Heaven is also the fifth Glorious Mystery of the rosary.

Our Lady of Grace does not have an “official” feast day on the Church calendar, but it is often commemorated on July 2. This title can be understood in a couple of ways; as Jesus’ mother, it was Mary who brought Divine Grace into the world. It is also through her powerful intercession that we, too, are granted a multitude of graces. Thus, Mary appears as a loving mother who obtains all that people need for eternal salvation.

Our Lady Queen of Peace, who is also known as Mother of Peace and Our Lady of Peace, actually has two feast days. The universal Church celebrates her on July 9, but in Hawaii and certain other states, she is commemorated on Jan. 24 and is often represented holding a dove and an olive branch. In 1917, during World War I, Pope Benedict XV asked people to pray to Mary under this title for an end to the devastation that was occurring on battlefields throughout the world.

The Immaculate Heart of Mary, whose feast is celebrated on Aug. 22, is closely related to the Sacred Heart. In honoring Jesus’ Sacred Heart, we acknowledge His incredible and boundless love for all people, a love which is often ignored or spurned. The heart of Mary, however, is turned instead toward her Son, and is a sign of her love and devotion to God. St. John Eudes (whose feast day is Aug. 19) is particularly known for his devotion to the Sacred Hearts of both Jesus and Mary.

Our Lady of the Angels comes to us from Costa Rica and began with the discovery of a statue only three inches high. A mestizo woman came upon this tiny depiction of Mary along a footpath on the Feast of the Holy Angels, Aug. 2, 1635. She took the image home, but it soon disappeared only to reappear in the place where she originally found it.  When the same thing happened five more times, it was determined that Our Lady wanted a shrine built on that spot. In 1935 Pope Pius XI declared the shrine of the Queen of Angels a basilica, and miracles have occurred there ever since.

We have many titles through which we love and honor Mary. Several years ago, however, I heard a homily in which the priest spoke of the greatest title of all, bestowed on her by her beloved Son. It encompasses in one word everything we ever need to know about her.

That title is “Mom.”

 —Originally published in the Summer 2020 issue of Vermont Catholic magazine

Tips for an eco-friendly Easter

The co-opting of holy days into secular holidays often results in an emphasis on consumerism, which is contrary to the teachings of the Christian faith and has negative effects on the environment and those who call it home. Keep your Easter celebration a little more holistic this year with these simple suggestions.

Dyeing Easter Eggs

  • Buy eggs from a local farm with pasture-raised chickens.
  • Look for biodegradable cardboard cartons instead of plastic or Styrofoam.
  • Instead of using chemical dyes, create natural dyes from vegetables and spices.
  • Don’t waste food! Use dyed eggs in recipes once you’re finished enjoying them as décor.

Easter Egg Baskets

  • Reuse plastic eggs and grass if you already own them. Most facilities can’t recycle these items.
  • If purchasing new items, seek biodegradable options, like ecoeggs™ and ecograss™, which are made in the United States from plants. They look like plastic and are reusable.
  • Use existing baskets, buckets or jars. If buying new, consider local artisans.
  • Avoid useless trinkets and fill eggs with Fairtrade chocolates (support sustainable living), jellybeans and nuts (they don’t require individual wrappers), seeds to plant a garden, coins, and inspirational messages.

Easter Meal

  • Shop for local ingredients, which require less packaging and shipping.
  • Use up dyed Easter eggs with a new recipe.
  • Try to prepare the meal with zero-waste.
  • Avoid single-use dishes and utensils.
  • Separate food scraps for composting.
  • Donate excess food or extra money not used on excess food to charity.

—Originally published in the Spring 2017 issue of Vermont Catholic magazine.

Times of trauma: Old Testament is a go-to guide for coping

When the difficulties and uncertainties of the coronavirus pandemic were at their height in Italy this past spring, one Vatican cardinal defined the snowballing crisis as a form of “trauma.”

When asked by the reporter what was needed to confront this challenge, Cardinal Gianfranco Ravasi, head of the Pontifical Council for Culture and a renowned biblical scholar, said he was finding some important insight in a book by a highly respected U.S. scholar, David M. Carr, titled “Holy Resilience: The Bible’s Traumatic Origins.”

In his 2014 book, Carr — a professor of the Old Testament at the Union Theological Seminary in New York, a Protestant and part of the editorial board of the Catholic Biblical Association’s quarterly publication — looks at how trauma gave birth to the Bible and how its texts reveal the strength and resiliency of individuals and communities in enduring suffering and disaster.

Cardinal Ravasi said in that April interview with La Repubblica that this concept of seeing the Bible through this lens of resilience “may now have significance for us, too.”

“The Bible as a whole is, in many ways, a product of dealing with collective catastrophes,” everything from pandemics to forced migrations, said Jesuit Father Dominik Markl, a scholar at Rome’s Pontifical Biblical Institute.

Instead of one simple message, the Bible is “a library produced over a millennium with multiple and often diverging responses to very difficult situations,” he told Catholic News Service.

He and another biblical scholar, who both spoke to CNS via Skype in mid-July, said this moment of great upheaval should serve as a strong impetus for people to pick up and read the Old Testament, which most Catholics are not always deeply familiar with.

The Old Testament, also known as the Hebrew Bible, can also be difficult to decipher and digest, said Mahri Leonard-Fleckman, an assistant professor of religious studies at the College of the Holy Cross in Massachusetts.

She said normally, many of her students have great difficulty trying to find anything to like or appreciate about the darker texts, particularly Ecclesiastes, which — if read superficially — seems to be saying, “there is no point to life.”

So while most students just “hate this book,” she said, “something completely flipped” with her spring semester students who, like everyone, suddenly found themselves in the maelstrom of a pandemic.

Now facing radically different and uncertain circumstances, they said they loved the text, “it spoke to them, it was just real and this was exactly what they were feeling,” she said.

“That was a really remarkable testament to how much the Hebrew Bible can really speak to us in times like this,” she said.

For example, she said the vast majority of the Book of Job “is just simply Job crying out in pain.”

His friends urge him “to come to grips” with what is happening, but there is no real reason for his suffering and “no proper human response to his suffering” either, she said.

What finally soothes him, she said, is God telling him, “Reorient your perspective so that you are not at the center, but … I am at the center, so that the vastness of the universe is at the center, put your suffering in the midst of that.”

God never explains or gives Job answers, but Job “seems like he is calmed by simply experiencing God,” she said.

The complexity and lack of clear answers in the Old Testament is “not always helpful, but I think right now, where we are, it is,” Leonard-Fleckman said.

It is not a call for being passive, she added, it shows people it’s alright to let themselves feel what is happening, “to grapple with it and to let them know” horrible, inexplicable things happen.

Father Markl said the biblical authors offer “a voice to those who suffer,” using strong language to express hardship, not repress it.

And experiencing great trauma and catastrophe can also open the door to real conversion, he added.

For example, he said it became clear during the Babylonian exile that “everything has broken down that had been our identity” and there was a feeling “that we cannot, there is no way of going ahead as we have been used to.”

Conversion becomes that moment when “we absolutely understand we need to change and that this is a painful and difficult process” because it demands being willing to “question one’s own concepts or concepts we take for granted,” including “what we consider to be our identity.”

Knowing what this change entails — such as fighting and resisting or surrendering and letting go, for example — requires prayer, Father Markl said.

Dialogue with God is “multifaceted,” he said, and a person can be in “fighting mode,” confused or feeling abandoned, but, in the Old Testament, they always remain in dialogue with God; even Jesus, who gives up his spirit on the cross, “he gives it up in dialogue.”

Only the individual in prayerful dialogue can discern what is being asked of them, he said, but it must be an honest dialogue that takes into account “what is important to God,” not just oneself.

This moment of great crisis “forces us to think more deeply about what society is about, about how we can help each other.”

All Christians should be examples of people who are aware and advocate “not for ourselves, but really for the good of humanity.”

—Carol Glatz